If you are a lesbian who just stepped out of the closet not too long ago, you might find it overwhelming and difficult to meet and find other singles lesbians. Well, it is common to feel like you are the only lesbian in this heterosexual world. In a way, gay men have it easier as there are gay clubs, bars, male choruses, cruises and others. But, what is there for the lesbians? Take note of these good starting points to meet local lesbians the easy way.
Lesbian and Gay Center
If you are not yet ready to go out on dates but you want to be acquainted with the local lesbian community, a lesbian and gay center is the best place for you to get started. Here, there is lesser pressure and you can join in different activities. If there is such center in your town, you must remember to check it out to see the type of programs they offer. This is known as a great location to meet singles lesbians and bisexual women around your city.
Lesbian bars might not have the carefree and wild appeal as that of gay bars, attracting not just gay men, straight women and practically all types in between. But, did you know that these are also a wonderful place for meeting single local lesbians? If there is no lesbian bar, check online and with the help of Google, you can surely find one near your place. Even if your city is small, you will definitely find at least one bar for lesbians tucked away somewhere. Don’t waste any minute and go there soon as you can.
Women’s Sports Team
This might sound stereotypical but chances are if you join the women’s sports team in your area, you can also get to meet other lesbians. Many lesbians are into sports. For example, field hockey wouldn’t exist if not for lesbian players. Roller derby is another up and coming sport where lesbians dominate as well. Unleash your aggressive side and start meeting singles lesbians. If you cannot find any lesbians who loved sports in your place, try joining some women sports since it will also help you meet lesbians. If you don’t get anything from it, at least you got to meet more people and you even got in better shape at the same time.
It doesn’t mean that you should hang out the church or something. However, if you are a religious person, there are a few open-minded congregations today that have lesbian and gay members. The Unitarian churches are best known for their liberal way of thinking and might be just the best place for you to meet religious singles lesbians.
Almost all cities have their own gay neighborhood even when it is just a single block long. The gay neighborhoods usually have some gay owned businesses and shops as well as bars, coffee shops and restaurants frequented by both local lesbians and gays. Try to go out and hang around the neighborhood, start some conversations with people in a gay bookshop or chat with that cute girl at a gay coffee houses.
These are just some of the exciting ways to meet local lesbians and gays in your area.